Who is Suzie?
I’m a Relate-trained counsellor, an accredited parenting educator, an agony aunt with over 15 years experience of working on UK national magazines (including eight years as agony aunt of Women’s Own), newspapers, television, radio and online and the author of 26 books – the two most recent being Teach Yourself Step-parenting and Teach Yourself Single Parenting. I was the counsellor in ‘Stepfamilies’, a major BBC1 series, helping people sort their way through the difficulties of bringing new families together.
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Am I the only one who has found losing their virginity hard?
I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six months and we have started to try and have sex. I feel really tight – I feel so ready for this and frustrated that it is not happening.. Continue reading
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I love her 2 bits but I don’t know how she feels!
I’ve known her for 2 years and she goes out with my best mate. They split up and then get back together and she flirts with me all the time. I’ve been there for her through thick and thin now I’m beginning to wonder if I’ve been used. Continue reading
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Am i turning bi?
I just turned 50 this month. When I was a young teen i played doctor w a female first cousin and my step brother. I’ve always liked girl on girl scenes. However, now I like seeing man, man on each other and a woman clips. Does that mean I’m becoming bi? Continue reading
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The phone sex is good but I want love!
We broke up because he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship. But he phones and calls me sexy in his txts and I can’t let go. Continue reading
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Should I end my marriage?
My wife recently had an affair with another man which totally devastated me. She left me but came back when he left her and I have been trying to make a go of it. While we were apart I started seeing someone but she’s backed off me now and has cut off all communication and has said that I should give the reconciliation 100% but I feel I can’t do it anymore, my heart isn’t in it. Continue reading
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He cusses every other word!
He cusses all the time and thinks I’m a goody 2 shoes. It hurts me so bad. How should I go about helping him cease this behavior if he thinks there is nothing wrong other than my over reaction? Continue reading
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He’s 18, I’m 54. Am i right to feel guilty?
He’s 18 and I’m 54 and I’m falling in love with him. But I’m starting to feel very guilty and it doesn’t feel right. Please help me Suzie!!! Continue reading
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I dont want to make the first move, in case he knocks me back.
I really fancy this guy who i work with. We get on really well and he always makes me laugh. But I’m really confused whether or not he’s into me. I really wish their was a way to know or if he would even give me a sign! Continue reading
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Does she like me?
She txts me, we hold hands and kiss. Does that mean she likes me a lot? Continue reading
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Do my fantasies mean i’m bi-curious or gay?
Since my early twenties, I’ve had frequent homosexual fantasies. I have been in a wonderful relationship since I was 18 with a woman whom I adore. Every now and then, my gay ‘yearnings’ are very strong and if I wasn’t married, would probably look to indulge in some experimentation. Should I tell her about these fantasies? Continue reading
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